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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
You are a fiddle, and she is playing you.
There are 3 billion women on the planet. 3 billion! Is Michelle (or Megan, for that matter) really the best you can do? In the end, you have to maintain your self-respect, and this circle is going to have tremendous negative consequences on yours. Go find a girl that is
a) faithful
b) honest
c) etc.
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The etc. part is easy to find. I have yet to find a person who wasn't etcetera.
On a real note:
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Originally Posted by Seaver
Look this is how it is, read it and read it close.
1. A friend cant tell a friend who to be friends with. HOWEVER..
2. A friend would never do something like this. This shows you she's not that into you. If she wants a relationship with you (which she doesnt), she would have dropped him like last weeks bad lunch.
3. By setting your foot down saying she cant be friends with him, you created a divide between you two, and made her want to be friends with him just to spite you.
4. This "friendship" isnt going to work, you're still VERY sore (and deserve to be) about how she betrayed you. It didnt work, now she wants you back? Doesnt sound like a friend let alone anyone you want to date.
5. IMHO she's just doing this to make herself feel good. So that in her mind, cheating on you wasnt so bad, because you're friends now its ok (i.e. you're cool with it, so it doesnt count). Drop her, she doesnt deserve you.
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Seaver has it exactly correct, in my opinion. You can't tell people who to be friends with. Only they can make their own decisions. She is probably doing this for a few reasons: to spite you, to make herself feel vindicated, and possibly to try and stay away from having to make a final decision on anything. No matter what, it's going poorly, and you need to get out of the situation before it goes worse. That's my advice.