I apologize if my frankness offends you, that was not my intent.
Believe it or not, I would do you a disservice if I said it any other way. My choice of words was a calculated attempt to shock you so that a lesson will be learned and applied to future opportunities. Rather than focusing on the tone of the message, just try to take in the message itself.
If you are truly upset with me (rather than simply projecting your disappointment in your own actions upon me), I will make it a point to avoid giving you advice in future requests. I do wish you all the success in Love that we all deserve.