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People that want to tell you all their woes. As if YOU could fix it all for them. Sil does this. She will even follow me when I turn my back on her and walk away when she refuses to stop talking after 10 min. Some people just aren't happy if they can't drag you down to their negative level.
I have seen some gentlemen hold doors open for ladies, or other men even. Then see the other people walk to a separate door and open it for themselves. They often give a look as if they are offended that the gentleman didn't think they could do it for themselves. Accepting polite assistance graciously is an art as valuable as being a gentleman/gentlewoman in the first place.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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