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I guess I'm the only one who thinks the way I do, but why would you want to be friends with someone (In hopes of a relationship) who is insistant on being friends with the person they cheated on you initially?
Doesn't that defeat the purpose ...
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That's exactly why -- in bold. If you just wanted to be a friend, it wouldn't be a problem that she was friends with Phil, as well. However, if you were friends (with you having an expectation of a relationship) then of course him being around isn't healthy. She obviously doesn't want to reincarnate this relationship -- so you can either be JUST FRIENDS (no relationship) or nothing at all.