Thanks for all your input guys (And gals)
As I told Michelle yesterday, I have no problems in her being friens with Phil, but I wouldn't be her friend if she did.
I guess I'm the only one who thinks the way I do, but why would you want to be friends with someone (In hopes of a relationship) who is insistant on being friends with the person they cheated on you initially?
Doesn't that defeat the purpose
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Sure, you can say it sounds selfish, but as he in insistant on talking about me behind my back and to my face, and she is insitant on listening to him, then I stand by my decision
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