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Decide what you want.
Don't want to be friends? Don't be.
Want to be friends? Then do it.
If you want to be friends, however, you can't put conditions on it. It's reminiscent of high school -- "OMG like dont talk to her, I wont be your friend".. were they really that good of friends?
You can decide that you don't want to be friends with her at all, and that's totally fine. But if you want to be her friend, asking her to break off other relationships is foolhardy at best.
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