Quit!!!!
It will only lead to the inevitable. You will find yourself in another woman's bed with a great satisfaction that you made it there. But then what? Will you be able to go home to your wife? If she's cool with it, she is likely cheating too.
Caution yourself while at work. Not only will you run into the problems mentioned above, you may lose your job. It won't happen gradually. Your boss will start compiling information on you in disguise. You'll walk into work one morning and walk right back out to your car jobless. I have seen it happen too often. I still think that your job is the least of you worries. Focus all your energy pursuing this other female on your wife. Didn't you do the same thing with your wife when you two met? It is a pursuit until you get married. It's what you do after you get married that determines how happy you are in your marriage.
My question to you is:
Do you want to stay married to your wife or do you want to be single and play this game with women for the rest of your single life? You can't realistically have it both ways and honestly be happy for long.
Keep a balance. It is normal to flirt but once you get to the edge, don't cross it!!!
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I have to exercise in the morning before my brain figures out what I'm doing. ~Marsha Doble
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