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If you're not dating Michelle anymore, I don't see why it matters so much. Would you end your friendship with her if she started dating Phil? If so, it doesn't sound like you value your friendship with her very highly. Or you're not over her. That's the real issue to work out, I think.
That said, ScottKuma is dead on--you have the right to say what works for you in your friendships with people, and they have the same right. It's not unreasonable per se, you just have to be ready to accept the consequences.
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