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Originally Posted by X_789_X
Is it unreasonable to tell someone that you won't be their friends as long as they insist on being friends with the person they cheated on you with?
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You have the right to make decisions in your life regarding those with whom you will & won't be friends. You have the right to set ultimatums on your friendship.
Your friends, however, have the right to tell you to go to hell.
If you make ultimatums, be prepared to have them blow up in your face, and to follow through on your threat. Otherwise, everytime you make a threat, it will carry ZERO weight.
If your ex insists on remaining friends with the person she cheated on you with, and if you're not ready to deal with that...then by all means cut off your friendship! However, I'd suggest that you not burn bridges. Keep it civil, and possibly revisit your friendship after 6 months to a year. She may have moved on.
[One of my best friends on this Earth is an ex-girlfriend of mine. We didn't work out as romantic interests, but she's more family to me than most of my blood-relatives!]