JJ and I met in college. I was engaged at the time, but having many problems with the long-distance aspect and my ex-fiance's drinking problem. JJ and I were friends for 2 years, but I was always attracted to him in a 'more than friends' way. Then on my birthday, we all went out. I got really drunk and confessed that I really loved him. The next day I broke off my engagement. Two years after that we were married and here we are today 4 1/2 years later. Eight years fly when you're having fun!