ah, this is making me marriage phobic lol. i really hope biznatch and i dont have these issues. although i doubt we will
he wont even let me help him do stuff. i really dont have any experience on the subject besides my father...he does tend to pull the "make a sandwich" thing...all my male friends do it as well..it starts with a simple snack and by the time they finish you cant see the counter. maybe its just a stupid thought but wouldnt it be a good idea to specify what you want at the start of a relationship? then make clear changes as teh relationship changes..like okay now that your working 14 hour days you dont have to clean the kitchen but on teh weekends your new job is laundry, or gardening or fixing things?
also, wasnt there some disney movie called mom on strike? i remember watching it a few years ago and thinking it was very funny