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In our swinger circles I know several straight men who have been confronted with the issue of meeting a transexual and engaging in sexual acts with them. None have chosen to do so because they are not comfortable with it 'at that point yet'. Most would not completely rule it out because it is not a reflection on them of their sexuality. The transexual would be playing the part of a woman, often dressing the part, and the encounter in the straight man's mind would be that of male-female intercourse.
I have met and spoken with a transexual man/woman. He dressed like a woman, acted like a woman and looked like one in many ways. He was a bit taller than the average woman and he was married. His wife was aware of his sexual orientation, which he came to terms with post-marriage and did not choose to leave him. I'm not sure if he is the true definition but his personality was quite a bit female. He wanted to meet men and wasn't interested in acting the man when with other men. I find this hard to describe. He put it into words better.
I guess what I'm saying is that the victim in this case was not trying to turn the men into homosexuals. She interacted with them as a female and they recieved it as such. Their egos were all that was 'harmed' and the 'wound' was something that WILL heal. She was not a continued threat to the men and their act was not indefence. IF I dated a man who had a physically violent viseral action when he discovered he'd been decieved by anyone I would not stay with him. That kind of man is the abuser.
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