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Originally Posted by analog
Just call it what it is. You used to go out, now you just hook up when you need/want to. One or both of you is very likely finding it hard to get another partner, and you're just using each other to satisfy your urges in the mean time. Nothing wrong with it, as long as both people know it's JUST sex.
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Well really, it can be whetever the couple wants....and to use your words, call it what it is - or whatever you think it is. Not everybody wants a huge commitment, and a "friends with benefits" situation might just do the trick for a lot of people. If it is a monogamous relationship that is even better, considering all the diseases out there. Some people just don't want or need more than that.
People that have been burned before, usually are a little reluctant to trust, and are very protective of their space, property, feelings, etc. Having a buffer like your own living space, etc is a good thing for a lot of people... me included.
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Originally Posted by analog
Nothing wrong with it, as long as both people know it's JUST sex.
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I agree with you in that however two people want to label a relationship they have (friends, lovers, fuckbuddies, etc), they both must be in agreement. That's the only way it will work. If one starts to have other ideas, then the "deal" they had will go south.