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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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Originally Posted by maleficent
Honey, i'm a 40 year old women, and women have been making the first move since i was your age... Sadie hawkins set a precedent long ago.... If you wait for him to ask - you are gonna be waiting a long time... Women need to get over themselves pretty quickly and if there's something they want -- ask for it - it's not always going to come to you.
And let me point out the obivious -- he volunteered his number to you.., He made the first move - -you said no... you have to at least meet him half way and accept the number-- and give him yours in the process...
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reminds me of the movie SummerTime with Katherine Hepburn in Venice Italy... the whole movie is her wishing things were different without her making the first move but always wanting the other person to do it and then being very upset that the other person didn't.
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