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Hey all, thanks for all of the advice. Sorry I didn't get back to you all sooner, busy work schedule and tests at school which I just started back to. Anyways I sat my wife down and explained to her that I am 1000% (yes I know that isn't possible) that I have never been and never will be gay(not that there's anything wrong with that). I explained that in the same way she likes certain parts of anatomy, so do I. I explained that I did some research (you guys, as well as some web sites) and found that there is nothing abnormal or gay about wanting to have anal sex with a female. It is infact a very intimate thing. So she said that she just needs to have a little more foreplay before we try it again, no problem here I said. I told her that maybe if I made her have an orgasm first it may help as well as additional lube from what we used the other night. I told her that I still like vaginal sex and that can be the norm, if once and a while she could throw me a bone with the anal, but only if she wants to. I told her that if she doesn't feel comfortable with it, or just doesn't want to do it, then we don't have to. After all it's her body that is being penetrated, not mine. She seemed to relax after this conversation. Hopefully this will open the gates to further communication and better sex, who could complain about that?
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