I have the one true example of how to work this right.
Just kidding. My recommendation is as much bullshit as Dr. Laura's. The one thing I can offer is that in every relationship I've been in, they fell into two categories; Right.. and Right Now. It's an old cliche, but it's true. In college when you HAD to be dating somebody to get invited to parties and appear sociable, I dated girls I knew I would NEVER be with for more than a few months. After college, that eventually stopped. Why bother? Work didn't have those kinds of parties. So I basically waited until I found the person I knew was the right one, and it was, if not love at first sight, then it was heart jump in my throat the first time she spoke to me.
Married at age 33, four years ago this Thursday (we're getting an oversize chair for our anniversary-all your domestication are belong to us).
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