Hehe this reminds me of the logic where if you like women to be fully shaved you must have pedophile tendencies. When Mrs. Ustwo didn't want to shave the first time she asked me about it because she read the pedophile thing somewhere. I of course laughed at her. I could see if your wife didn't want to do anal she would ask the same thing, mostly out of annoyance.
Also I don’t' think that ngdawg's take was 'anti-male' at all. As a male my experience giving anal-sex to women has been mostly negative since Mr. Happy is a bit too wide for it and it always hurts them. Plus I have to agree that pussy > asshole for sex
