ngdawg

Yes, you have, actually. I don't know where this 'anti-male' comes from...as someone whose four best friends are all male, discussions on this level with them is the norm.
My questions are from the perspective of a wife who doesn't like anal and I bring up the possibility of the thinking behind it. I never used the word obsessed either and in context of a discussion, would prefer the exact words used, as I did when responding to Wolf.
This is an issue between marrieds and as such, should be something mutually decided on.

Edit: This has gotten offtrack because of some misguided thinking and personal feelings. I addressed Wolf's statement that his wife 'permits' it, but then there's the argument after and that is what needs to be addressed, really, as that is a much deeper issue than her belittling words to him. Regardless of the immaturity of the words used, there's more at stake and Wolf and the wife need to explore what that is.

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