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Originally Posted by analog
Nobody questioned his persistence because he gave no indication he's persistent, or how persistent. For all we know, she's calling him obsessed because he mentions it once a month, once every 6 months. Any amount can be seen as obsessing from the point of view of a person who doesn't enjoy said activity.
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But if she doesn't enjoy it and he keeps requesting it, isn't that persistent?
There's no question in my mind that her approach to the situation is wrong, but if
wolf's main concern is whether he's gay or not, and not also that his wife is opposed to anal, isn't there clearly a lack of communication or caring that has to be addressed?
I would love to hear from both
ngdawg and
wolf again.
Ngdawg, have I interpreted your motives correctly?
Wolf, have you considered that you might have to give up on anal with your wife?