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Originally Posted by analog
Ignoring the blatantly anti-male stance in this post, I agree with the crux of the point made here. If you're doing something that is uncomfortable for someone else, regardless of their sex or yours, you have to do so with an extra dose of understanding for their feelings on the issue.
This has nothing to do with "wants" and whose are more important, so there's no need to bash the guy and talk to him like he's "another stupid, insensitive man"....
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To spring to
ngdawg's defense, she didn't post an anti-male stance. She was just balancing the issue. Nobody had questioned
wolf's persistence upon having anal sex until she posted. We were all taking for granted that he was entitled. Ngdawg was merely bringing up something that had been overlooked and I do not at all see anything there that is anti-male.