I don't think it means you are gay (there's nothing wrong with being gay anyway).
I've had anal sex but even if a pretty man offered it I'm straight and only find some ladies attractive.
But your wife has hands, breasts, a body, a mouth, a mind, a pussy, what is your obsession with her anal area from?
If it's from tightness, then gently suggest to her to do the Kegels.
If I marry and my wife accepts anal then to me I would want for every 10x oral and 10 x penetration I would except or want anal maybe 1x if that.
Have you watched too much porn? Remember when you were a kid or teen, I bet you could get turned on my just kissing a girl?
tone down the fantasies. How about if she wanted to use a strap on up your ass and that's what she talked about all the time, wouldn't you think she was obsessing a tad too much?
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