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Originally Posted by maleficent
and if she doesnt put out... then you never call her again?
Fascinating...
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Not if all the guy wanted was to get laid and move on. While I disagree with HoneyPot's modus operandi (which is old-fashioned), she might just have avoided an undesired one-night-stand. If the guy only wanted some tail and didn't get it, why would he waste further time? The thrill of the hunt? That's overrated, folks.
Of course, he MIGHT have thought that he didn't completely grasp HoneyPot's goal in taking him home with her. They had a good time, they fooled around, and that's it. No sex.
/me opens window into guy's potential train of thought/
"What gives? Does she want to take her time? Is she really interested in me on a more than physical level? How could I find out if she's REALLY interested, without directly asking her, because I'm shy/stupid/not experienced enough? I know! I'll offer her my number, and if she accepts it and calls, then I'll know she really wants to get to know me. What's this? She refused my number, but gave me hers? Why? Well, she must trust me to some extent, since she's leaving herself vulnerable to trouble if I turn out to be a psycho-obsessive-compulsive that would constantly call her up until she changed her number. However, now I have to take the first step ALL OVER AGAIN, after I CLEARLY SHOWED INTEREST BY GOING TO THE BAR SHE WENT TO AFTER SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS GOING TO BE THERE and then TAKING HER HOME WHEN SHE OFFERED and FOOLING AROUND WITH HER. She must really not like taking any kind of initiative, which is weird after the good time we had. Gee! This is complicated! Maybe I'm better off with someone who's more pro-active."
/window closes/
Next time, HoneyPot, have some more courage.