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Originally Posted by pigglet
you admitting that you have a little fetish involving her anus should not result in her attacking your sexual libido.
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Yep, I agree. How long have you two been married? Does she trust you?
Before (and while) ktspktsp and I started trying anal stuff, we had long talks about why we were interested in such activities and what it could mean for us, both individually and as a couple. As a result of so much open communication (and plain old trust)
on the topic, I never had a problem with trying this stuff. The question of possible gayness/bi-ness did come up, but not as an accusation... more as just a curiousity thing (and I have also been curious about my own sexuality, so it's something we've both talked about). Obviously if his sexuality was part of it, it would have affected our relationship, but he did some soul-searching and came to the conclusion that really, he just likes my ass.
I am very secure knowing that his desire for anal activities doesn't reflect at all on his sexual orientation... it's just another part of the body to enjoy. Communicate!!! in a non-threatening manner. And let us know how it goes.