Sounds like she's just looking at the feeling that you would receive from her ass or a guys ass, as they would be fairly similar. Since when was sex just about the feeling though? Theres a ton more that goes into it, visual stimulation is hugely important as well.
Maybe you could try to impress on her that while yes, you do like the added sensation of anal sex (tighter, for one), the intimacy and sexual appeal of her is what really drives you. Doing the same thing with a guy, or another woman for that matter, wouldnt have those other very important pieces.
And of course, if there is something other than the feeling that feeds your desire for anal, bring that up as well. I know that for me and my Wife a big part of the sexyness behind anal is the way that she has to relax completely and let me take control for it to work. I never force my way in, instead just holding her tightly from behind and whispering in her ear until she relaxes enough. A little bit of dominiation with a whole lot of respect works best for us.
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