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Well, I have given my number to a number of ladies and my only 2 long term relationships, including my present SO, were the only 2 that called me back.
I am confident, secure but don't feel like the "player", society expects me to play. Flirt, tease, hit on some woman and try to get a number. After a few fake numbers and women who gave a number just for fun but were already in a relationship, I decided to give my number first. Now, if I like someone, I give them my number and if they call, WOW, a huge first step has already been hurdled. I now know they liked me enough to call, AND they are confident in themselves to call, which is a huge turn-on.
Next time this happens, as your obviously not going to do it this time, if you like the guy and you get his number, take a chance, let your confidence flow and give him a call. You might be pleasantly surprised.
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