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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that when she decides to tell you what she needs to, that it is the pure honest truth.
Sadly, I've been in a situation such as yours. Usually, it ends up being one of a few things... One is pregnancy, whether perceived or confirmed, but you've already ruled that out. The other, unfortunately, is that she has either slept with and/or is thinking about another guy.
In my situation, I never found out the true answer on the sex part of things... but it was quite obvious that she was still very attached to her ex. Because of that lack of communication/maturity, I pushed her away further and severed the fragile friendship that remained following our breakup. We haven't spoken since.
Had she been more honest, I'm sure we could have had a meaningful friendship that would have lasted a lifetime. But I'm very positive that if this were the case, I would have never lost my feelings for her, and would never have been able to develop the amazing relationship that I now have with my wife. Obviously, severing those ties was for the best.
My best suggestion is to surround yourself with family and friends, occupy your free time in any way possible, and try to worry as little as possible. Don't get lost in worry and depression, it's unhealthy and can be damaging in future relationships.
Sorry for the long post.
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