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Sue,
If Sam starts to seem angry, agravated or ticked off at you, please don't let it affect your feelings for him. This is something that my wife and I have discussed since I retired. It seemed like everytime I was to deploy, those feelings started about a week before. By the time it was dday, we were at a point of ready to kill each other. We made it through though. I would always call just before the lines were casted off and apoligize.
You can make it through this, many others have before you. Also, my wife stayed with me the entire times which included over 12 years of sea duty. One year we were away from our homeport for 320 days out of 365.
My thoughts and prayers are with Sam and you. Please pass my thanks to him for his chosen profession.
Seadevil
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