Without knowing how long you've been together, it makes my response a bit difficult.
If it's only been a short time, then I would say there hasn't been enough trust built in the relationship and maybe she's just not sure how you'll react. She may be afraid of scaring you away if she reveals too much. If this is the case, then I'd say it may be worth respecting her wish to wait.
If, however, you've been together for awhile (more than a year), then I would say that her behavior is highly unfair to you. While I'm sure what she's going through - whatever it may be - is tough for her, she is creating worry for you in what I think is a fairly callous manner. If the relationship is an older one and I were treated this way, I might consider it a deal-breaker. Obviously the trust isn't there and if it's not there after this amount of time, it probably never will be.
For me, it really would matter how long you've been together.
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