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Originally Posted by TM875
but if she smokes a little cigarette once in a while, then it's all over?
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Just a clarifying question: what makes someone a "smoker?"
To me, it's someone who has to (or chooses to, in bad jane's case) smoke every day, or at most social occasions. Smoking a "little cigarette once in a while" does not make someone a smoker in my book. I still don't like smoking, but if my bf chooses to smoke one rarely (he's smoked 2-3 times, if not less than that, in a year), I've decided that it's okay with me.
But I couldn't date a
smoker, because that would be part of their lifestyle and personality that I couldn't live with. I guess I had a roommate who smoked once every night, but she did go outside to do it, and it was just one cigarette each day... that was tolerable, but I wasn't kissing her!
