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Wow, that's a tough situation, and I don't really have the best answer for you. Of your suggestions I like the third one best, that way the money goes back to him in a way and he doens't have to feel awkward about the situation. Hopefully your brother in law can offer some perspectives on his personality. I suppose if you were to give some back, $20 might be a nice nuetral compromise, it's basically half and a much more reasonable amount. Good luck!
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-Carl Sagan
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