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Originally Posted by amonkie
Just from a girl perspective, you commented on your wife's response as teasing you about a dates, etc. For me personally, when I feel hurt and I feel the lines of communications are not open, my first instinct used to be to put on a happy face and pretend everything is ok and joke to try and convince myself I was ok with a situation.
It wouldn't hurt to check in with your wife regularly and make sure the communication lines are Open - The last thing you want is built up resentment because you guys are not consistently on the same page and her feelings have changed.
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Monkie, well put. I agree that I would be a little jealous if JJ spent a lot of time eating lunch with another woman. It wouldn't bother me too much, but resentment is easy to build and I'm sure she has an indication that you have a crush on this woman even though you've never mentioned it. Women are very intuitive and if you are close she probably has an inkling. But, I'm not in your situation nor do I know your wife. If you both are comfortable about it, I guess there shouldn't be a problem. However, I do recommend keeping the lines of communication open and understand that your wife could be hiding her real feelings.