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Originally Posted by denim
I've had this problem. I think I've got a "handle" on it (ha ha), but I need to do more research. 
Here's the deal: since puberty, most of the time I'm getting myself off, so that's what I'm used to. My hand, expected stimulation, and all that. I can't imagine a pussy which can generate that kind of pressure/friction/sensation. I suspect that if a woman stuck around long enough, I'd learn to cum with her, but it hasn't happened yet. And as I age, and gain weight, it gets worse. |
Well I have had this problem and have solutions that worked for me.
It was definitely caused for me by too much wanking the wrong way!
Because most lady's pussy's feel a little softer than my vice like grip!
Also maybe you have trained yourself to orgasm to certain fantasies?
Solution:
think of her all the time, get turned on by her and no one else.
If you wank do it very softly (thinking of her don't forget)
Certain positions are better for grip and thrust - doggy and kneeling between her legs should help.
If she's too wet (this is possible) wipe her down a bit - are you slipping out?
Use thinner condoms. I always use them and they don't help with feeling but save your life so are essential
As others have said also having lots of foreplay can help.
There was one g/friend who always got me 90% to orgasm through her kissing alone. Man she was the hottest kisser in the world
If you don't come it's not the end of everything m8.
This will take weeks and weeks to get right and if it takes longer it's OK.
have fun!