Wow! I could never imagine just walking over to a girl a grabbing her boob. I mean, I'm a guy, and I personally LOVE boobs... but still. Wow! Personally, the number one reason why I wouldn't do such a thing is because it's a disgusting lecherous thing to do. A close second would be fear of the girl slapping the crap out of me. Third would be her boyfriend kicking my ass.
Honestly, I'm stocky and the military has helped keep my strength up over the years. I have short buzzed hair and look more like a jock than the geek I really am. I go to hobby shops and gaming stores on a semi-regular basis and when I do, often my wife will go in and browse about to prevent boredom. If some dweeby guy sidled up next to her and grabbed her boob, he would be in for the fright of his life, I assure you.
As for what to do about it? Be more assertive. You have it in you if you're able to use the "hello" defense, which is basically a mild scare tactic. You could use the Gaz tactic (from Invader Zim) and just ooze personality. That'll scare all but the staunchest pervert away. Also it may attract people of a similar mindset, which isn't a wholly bad thing.
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