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Old 09-01-2005, 06:11 AM   #37 (permalink)
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As far as my wife goes, she has met the girl, and we've teased each other back and forth about me flirting with her, etc. ...
Good for you. This is exactly how it should be--nothing substiantial hidden, your wife is in the know, and you're not "headed anywhere" with this girl.

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Having both would be interesting, though. ;-) But that hardly ever happens outside of porn, right? :-)
I don't know about that :whistles innocently:

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I like this girl, and I'm attracted to her, and I'm very flattered that she's attracted to me back. But at the end of the day, I love my wife, and don't want to cheat on her.

So, for now, I'm going to work on 'behaving myself' and making sure I keep open and honest communication about it with my wife. And, having fun (but not too much) with my crush. And, I hope, getting a really good friend out of the bargain.
As long as the order of importance is the order you mentioned those goals, then great.
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