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Old 08-31-2005, 09:24 PM   #2 (permalink)
eMOTIONal20
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Hmm sounds a little bit to me like she missed that "single time" that a lot of people need after getting out of serious relationship. Jumping from one to another is not usually a good idea... if she really wanted to be with you though, and make it work, she would.

Number 2 sounds like a huge red flag to me, if she was going to cheat on her ex with you anyway, what does that mean about you and her while she's away at a different school? Maybe she'll meet someone else who suddenly "sweeps her off her feet" and she'll end up cheating on you...

It sounds like what you need to do now is communicate with her. Ask her how she feels about the relationship with you. Ask her if she's having feelings for other people, or wanting to be single at her new school. If I were in your position I'd be telling my SO to tell me if he wanted to be with someone else or be by himself... I think that would save a lot of hurtful emotions. It sounds like a much better idea than being cheated on, lied to, or lead on....
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