We didn't have sex on the first date, but the second, more due to circumstance so I voted first.
We have been together for 14 years.
Married for 8.
Still maddly in love, and know that our marriage is not based around sex.
I think much of the first date sex = no long term relationship has to go with the mindset a female has who is looking for sex on a first date. If you just want to get laid you are not looking or caring about a relationship per say. I don't include the men in this because most men will not turn down sex on a first date because they don't want to spoil a relationship.
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