Well can I break with the consensus and say I love cybersex! To me it's akin to playing a computer game which will give you a human reaction and you can explore a fantasy or roleplay situation. It's about building the erotic drama more than simulating a purely physical exchange. I do find it erotic if you exchange pics with someone. I am strangely attracted to the idea of telling someone that I'd really love to do all sorts to them and to know that they know i'm looking directly at their pic. To me the fact that it's a total stranger is one of the biggest turn ons. It took me while to really 'get it' and to be honest the part I still struggle with is the climax. That just doesn't happen online for me. Typing "nnnngggghhhhhhrrrrrrrrr" into a chat window is just too comical. If it's been a good exchange I may go and masturbate on the back of it after I've finished. It's got to be very very good for me to actually cum while still typing, but if I get someone with a powerful erotic imagination then you can really go places together! And if the other person is not exactly who they say they are? Does that matter to me as long as they're convincing? Not really. As a began to say think of it as a computer game.
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