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Originally Posted by Lasereth
I don't think telling your wife is a good idea. So...you find a woman attractive and joke around with her. Are we all doomed to "report" to our spouses every single person we find attractive and joke around with for our entire lives? This is ridiculous. If deep down inside you think you might hit it off with her, then stop it now. Pretend she came up to you and began taking your pants off. Would you stop her if you knew no one would find out? If you're not sure if you would stop her, then stop communicating with her, end of story. There's no reason for your wife to know every detail about every woman that you find attractive. If my girlfriend came up to me and said, "There's a guy at work and I'm not gonna have sex with him but I think he's hot and we like to joke around" I would think something is up, even if nothing was up.
-Lasereth
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Yeah, what is up with the whole 'tell your wife" bit? Look at the menu, eat your meals at home. It is perfectly normal to be attracted to another of the opposite sex even when married. However, we are not animals. We have something called free will. You can choose to let your dick run away with you or you can choose to remember your vows, until death do you part. Telling your wife you are attracted to another at work is going to make your wife feel like shit and you look like a moron. It also completely blows any trust she may have for you. Believe me, you do not want your wife mistrusting you. Spousal mistrust leads to divorce faster than anything I've ever seen.