Thankfully, secret and I don't/won't have this problem. It really comes down to communication, we agree to do everything in our relationship equally and as long as we both do our part it works out fine.
I've also found that in general, the guys I know are very clean and organized and do household chores. It's all the girls I've ever lived with that I have to constantly clean up after and take care of their messes, etc. So, I've found that while there may be guys out there who don't do there part around the house, there are just as many women, and it's a personality flaw rather than a gender issue.
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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