"Sorry honey, it's against the law and I just wouldn't feel right doing it." Then, when she tries hard to persuade you (as all good teenagers should do) the answer is, "I'm not ______'s parent" and "good try." Your child (growing up child, true) still needs your guidance and rules. That is why she is living with you and not some other parent or on her own. Doing what is right is not always doing what is easy. Good luck.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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