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Originally Posted by pisces_gurl84
He is always telling me that he is coming (on weekends) and then doesn't show up. I wait and worry about him. He doesn't call me at all during the course of the weekend, and then acts like nothing happened, or makes excuses when we finally do talk. I've heard car troubles, being sick, needed time alone. I don't know what to think about this.
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This is what concerns me. Sorry, not showing up when he is expected and not even letting you know that he's safe, what's going on, that you can make other plans...that's immature, selfish, and rude. Does not sound like "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" love to me, and I see why your friends would be upset seeing you treated that way. And to be honest, you are letting him treat you that way.
When he doesn't talk to you, when he doesn't tell you something...he's telling you something.
Hope this doesn't sound harsh, but that would be a complete deal-breaker for me. I wish you good luck!