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Maleficent....Thanks for replying. I have taken a train on numerous occasions, and if I can't, I always pitch in for gas and whatnot. I've done everything I can think of to put him at ease. Our relationship is long distance because of work. I graduated from college about the same time we started dating and have been trying to gain some more experience before I attempt a move.
The majority of the concerns I have surround him not showing up. I feel like I can't rely on him anymore. He says he will do something but I have a hard time believing it because my experience tells me otherwise. He doesn't tell me what hes up to, he's very vague with it. If i ask him what he did to keep himself busy during the week, I get an answer like "not much" or "nothing". I sometimes feel like hes hiding something, but I do trust him. There's also the "parents" thing. He's met my parents, and it was his idea to meet them. But I am not "allowed" to meet his. He says that they are not an important part of his life. Sometimes I feel like he's trying to hide me, but I have met all of his friends. I know this is a lot, but it has built up for awhile.
One thing I haven't mentioned is that there is 8 years dirrence in our ages. I don't think that would play any part, but like i said, I'm confused. Thats pretty much the gist of it. Thanks again!
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