Long distance relationships are tough, and tougher when one person is doing themajority of the work. Your boyfriend sounds frustrated that he's doing all the travelling. can you take a bus or a train to go to him, meet him half way somewhere, pay for gas/wear and tear on his car? what is it about your living situation that makes it long distance? School? Work?
What are your concerns about the relationship that you don't feel he is addressing or ignoring? That you aren't coming first in his life? In a perfect world you would always come first, but real life isn't perfect, things happen.
I think you need to sit down wiht him and have a long hard talk - -about what you want - with you both being completely honest, sounds like he's being a nice guy and doesn't want to hurt you but it's also not sounding, to me, that he wants to be in this relationship...
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