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Need advice
I'm new here and would appreciate some advice. I'm not sure where to begin...
I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Everything was great for the first 8 months. Since then its been problem after problem. He doesn't live very far, its about a 2 hour drive. I am without a car so he has been responsible for coming to me the majority of the relationship. He just recently stated that he feels the relationship is unfair because he has been coming to me, and wants that to change. I explained that I am unable to go to hime every weekend but would make a concious effort. I have addressed all his oncerns about the relationship and have been trying to make things better. The problem I have is that my concerns are sometimes sloughed off. When he has a problem it has to be dealt with right away before anything else. I have barely seen hime in 6 months. Once this whole summer. He is always telling me that he is coming (on weekends) and then doesn't show up. I wait and worry about him. He doesn't call me at all during the course of the weekend, and then acts like nothing happened, or makes excuses when we finally do talk. I've heard car troubles, being sick, needed time alone. I don't know what to think about this. I love hime very much and trust him wholeheartedly. I just don't understand what is happening. He's made it very clear that he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but I'm so confused. I feel like he doesn't want to see me, and I'm getting nothing but slack about it from my friends. I need advice from someone out of the situation. I'm sorry this is so long, I just need some advice. Please help!
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