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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Okay, first of all, you've got to tell your wife all about this. And I mean all about it. And she needs to tell her husband all about it. Don't be melodramatic about it. You have nothing to confess--as you say, you've done nothing wrong--but you need to be in communication about it.
We generally don't have much control over who we're attracted to. But we have all the control in the world over what we do about it.
If you happen to have read many of my posts, you'll know I believe there are many ways this could turn out, but without honesty and open communication, it's headed in a certain predictable direction.
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Sometimes ratbastid posts for me under his own name, and then i can come in at a later time and just say, "I agree with what he said, every word of it." It saves me time.
lol
But yeah... you've got about a one in a million chance of it continuing in a good, strictly platonic direction. Good luck with that.
BTW, this is the stake that drives the whole thing into the ground, more than anything else about what you said:
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We're attracted to each other, and, if we weren't married to other people, I suspect we'd get together.
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