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Originally Posted by Lasereth
I don't think telling your wife is a good idea. So...you find a woman attractive and joke around with her. Are we all doomed to "report" to our spouses every single person we find attractive and joke around with for our entire lives? This is ridiculous. *snip*
There's no reason for your wife to know every detail about every woman that you find attractive. If my girlfriend came up to me and said, "There's a guy at work and I'm not gonna have sex with him but I think he's hot and we like to joke around" I would think something is up, even if nothing was up.
-Lasereth
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What would you think of a scenario like, you and your wife go out to dinner whith her and her hubby? Would you feel uncomfortable?
I guess I'm saying, if you all can meet, be friends, hang out, it may help to "de-fuse" a tension there.
I have guy friends who I would probably date if we weren't married (because we are FRIENDS, and get along well), and they're friends with my hubby, and there's no tension because, well, we all know each other and stuff. I guess it's because there's no *pursuit*, just an acknowledgement of attraction and commonality.
The No Pursuit thing is the key, I think.
And for the record, I agree with Laereth here.