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Originally Posted by Suave
Besides, that type of consequence could be applied to pretty much everything in life, and everyone will have aspects of themselves that they do not know, or know well at least.
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Yep, I totally agree, unless you're the type that only knows yourself better through making as many mistakes as possible, which is fine but also a very painful way of living. I mean, learning through experience isn't bad, but I think most people know themselves a little better than that. Isn't it possible to just plain know what you want, and to be satisfied not exploring "possibilities" because you simply know what makes you happy without fucking things up (or fucking other people) 100 times before finding happiness with one person?
I think Gilda really sums it up for me here:
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Originally Posted by Gilda
My point is that just because a person is a virgin at a particular age doesn't tell us anything about that person except that they haven't had sex yet.
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Any more than that is an assumption based on a very small aspect of their lives. It's as bad as judging someone based on their skin color or gender, if you ask me. Sure everyone has assumptions about "virgins," but until you actually sit down and talk with that individual, find out their whole story, instead of saying they're ignorant fools... until then you are just an asshole.