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Okay, first of all, you've got to tell your wife all about this. And I mean all about it. And she needs to tell her husband all about it. Don't be melodramatic about it. You have nothing to confess--as you say, you've done nothing wrong--but you need to be in communication about it.
We generally don't have much control over who we're attracted to. But we have all the control in the world over what we do about it.
If you happen to have read many of my posts, you'll know I believe there are many ways this could turn out, but without honesty and open communication, it's headed in a certain predictable direction.
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