No to: lasting/hurtful pain, animals, another bloke (for me or her!), children. Try anything else once to see what it's like, twice as long as one of us likes it and the other gets enjoyment from it. Incorporate it into 'things we like to do often' if it's especially fun. All of the above after discussion and agreement. It's a trust and respect thing. Also, what happens between us stays between us; if we have concerns or issues we work them out- definitely no gossipping/inappropriate sharing.
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But why??
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