Encouragement by way of a story...I had a lover once who orgasmed only by my mouth or hand, and while she had seriously big vibrator as well, only came when using it on her clit. When I met a girl who could orgasm with me inside her it was just the most excellent experience- sex with a woman when she comes is just soooo much better a feeling. She and every other lover I've had who comes with me inside has been very comfortable with masturbating, and the majority attribute their heightened enjoyment of sex with a man to being good at and comfortable with pleasuring themselves. I spose what I'm trying to say is that if you need some encouragement to becoming good at masturbation is that it might also increase your pleasure from sex with someone else because they're getting more from the experience. Hope that makes sense.
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